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Sunday, June 28th, 2009

Keep the Marriage “Sparked” after Retirement

 

Most people are planning to retire during some point in their life. So what are you going to do after the full work-a-day week is over? Many have plans to travel to those distant far away places always dreamed of yet never time to  go with their beloved ones, some swear they will sit and do nothing for awhile, some say more time alone and then there are those that just want to get out of the rut of their schedule.

 

If you are retiring, your schedule will no doubt be drastically different and you will find you and your spouse will have a lot more time to pick and choose your days and eves at will. At the same time you will find there is not the “space” you had from another as before. For example, you’re both home often and at the same time. This is new, this is unusual. Do you like it, or not. There is a lot of free time now, the kids are gone and what is there to do? What is fresh and new to talk about? Where is the excitement?

 

Divorce statistics for the over 50’s continue to rise steadily. It has been speculated that the most common triggers for this are children leaving home or retirement. Couples start to feel they have nothing in common any more and marriages that have lasted for 30 years or more are coming to an end. Don’t become another statistic.

 

For a successful plan of retirement, it is always good to have a plan of action set individually as well as together. After all, you have spent a number of years working hard, raising kids and this is YOUR time to enjoy and look back at all you did and move forward in time, with a bigger and even more exciting plan.

 

For a good plan of action, each person in the relationship needs to have his and her own goals set as well as some mutual interests that are truly dear to you both. This can be any number of things and the best part of this is that the world is open to your imagination of wonderful ideas. Sit down together and help one another look at what each of you individually may not have yet done that you want to do individually as well as together. This is a terrific way to plan another chapter of your life with your spouse and to keep the sparks really flying.

 

The last half of our lives together is one which will be only as exciting as we make it and continue to be a team. The excitement will also come from respect and admiration to one another, care and consideration and helping one another to acquire that new skill, helping your spouse attend a class he/she gave up years ago, or whatever it may be.

 

More important than anything will be communication. There will be issues which may come up which you never vented or voiced before. There is more time together now and you both may find yourself wanting to open up about these points. By all means, to have a relationship with some spark, you will most benefit from an open and honest communication but at the same time you need to be a sincere friend and maintain “all ears”, while some topics may not be to your liking. Be a true friend and let one another grow in this new era of your lives. The last half of our lives can be tremendously exciting as well as a learning experience.

 

Most adults state they would never trade what they know now for those young and wild years. These experiences we had are what makes “maturity”, has many benefits and a key point in being a wonderful spouse in a relationship is being there for your partner in all of life’s stages and going through the rest of your lives, hand in hand kicking up your heels.

 

Tina Turbin

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Thursday, June 25th, 2009

Michael Jackson – King of Pop

Heal the World!

Heal the World!

Today was the sorry news that a true legend has died of a cardiac arrest. The man has left a legacy that will travel through time and not be forgotten. He will be known in the Ages as a Master in his own right. Reflect on all his talent and good. Let him rest in peace.

 

 

Tina Turbin

 

 

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Monday, June 15th, 2009

Anti-Aging and A High Quality of Life

 

We all want to look good, feel good and live a high quality of life. Looking around and seeing our elderly family members suffer or live lives through doctor’s appointments, is neither appealing nor ideal. We want to avoid the pitfall of growing old and looking old, so we work hard at adapting our schedules to fit in exercise, buy organic and doing our research.

 

By the time one nears the 50’s there goes half our muscular strength, half of our lung capacity, and a good percentage of bone. This applies to men and women. After menopause many women have an unsuccessful battle with weight gain around their waist and hips, and the rise in breast cancer increases as our hormones are really all out of sorts and diminishing. We seldom hear of a rise in testicle cancer in young boys, yet we sure do in the declining hormonal man. It is time for us to really open our eyes, learn and make some changes and do something about it BEFORE the trouble starts.

 

Aging does happen and it happens when cell death begins. To start on an effective anti-aging program is ideal. Today’s life expectancy is near doubled that of a century ago at 42 years old. Today there are many seniors in their 90’s, over 70,000 centenarians in the U.S.A. and this is expected to double in the next 5- 10 years. Let’s live long and with a high QUALITY of life. We have advancements in medicine and technology, which are great contributors to these changes in life expectancy.

 

We can help make our cells stay healthy from within by a number of means yet there are a few key points which are tried and true and that make a difference! Yes, exercising and a healthy diet are definitely a start. As we know the American diet is deficient in many essential nutrients, resulting in degenerative diseases. Even if we follow a healthy diet, our way of farming has depleted the soil of many essential minerals. Now we add the poor effects of pollution, use of refined sugar, high fat (especially trans-fat), simple sugars, and high salt in many of our boxes or frozen foods, so our need for supplementation is magnified.

For this reason, supplementation is a key pillar of any effective anti-aging program.  There is no single “magic bullet” supplement that can reverse aging. However, we do know that combining various supplements, exercise and a good diet with a proper protocol from a well-trained anti-aging doctor will improve ones physical life. There is even more we can do and many of us are doing this with rave successes.

 

At times any one of us may have adverse reactions to any particular food we are eating, undermining all the hard work we are doing. Digestive disturbances of all sorts are rampant amongst people as they hit their early 40’s and many kids are having troubles these days too. Proper enzymes to help digestion and even proper allergy tests may be necessary. Many people are gluten or dairy intolerant: www.glutenfreehelp.info and not even know it, living with all sorts of symptoms which can be easily resolved.

 

Natural hormone replacements, bioidentical hormones have taken precedence these days. Many reports of feeling better than ever, pain gone to diminishing, weight loss finally. Muscle tone improved, can exercise with vigor, wrinkle reduction, sleeping better and energy like “when I was a kid,” and the list goes on.

 

Bioidentical pharmacies are popping up all over and many doctors and surgeons are converting or adding to their primary service, to now include and anti-aging protocol. Many stating they were tired of not being able to truly help and they knew there was something missing in their practice, and they were right.

 

Protocols need to be individualized as we are all personally individual, have different life styles and some of us may get a bit more aggressive on the regimen, due to our own nature or simply time and/or money. The anti-aging doctor knows precisely how to read our lab work and guide us properly towards OUR own goals.  This is very important: find a doctor who listens to YOUR goals and helps you achieve THEM.

 

I do believe it is best to begin this type of protocol with some education in the area and stepping into it feeling this is the correct choice for oneself. So read up about it, do some Googling and get yourself informed. As our body gets older our hormones decline towards low levels, which may totally explain many of the symptoms and illnesses your friends, family members and those you read about are experiencing. Through the inclusion of a proper complete protocol with an expert anti-aging doctor, we can fulfill our dreams for living many long, happy and healthy years and have the High Quality of Life we all deserve.

 

Keep in mind to really check into bioidentical hormones for anyone you care about versus the “conventional” hormones and birth control pills, especially of you have kids who are teens and those in their 20’s.  More on this will come in another article.

 

Thank you, Tina Turbin

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Sunday, June 7th, 2009

Tina and Danny the Dragon Visit Florida Montessori School

I haven’t shared with you a number of schools I was doing readings and Question and Answer periods with of my children’s book Danny the Dragon Meets Jimmy. One school I need to pay my respects to is a Florida Montessori School for the deaf I visited before I left on my trip. I was honored to do a reading at their school while one of the teachers did sign language.

 

 

 

The kids’ eyes were huge as they took in the concepts of Danny the Dragon, and followed along with the story. I can not tell you the feeling in the room. I am also happy to say my own education began at a Montessori School in Brentwood, California.

To this day I remember the freedom and space the school allowed each of us kids to evolve and reach out to the world in our chosen time. I am happy to have been there then and now again, recently.

 Thank you, Blossom Montessori School for the Deaf. It was MY pleasure.

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Monday, June 1st, 2009

Danny the Dragon book review at Suite 101!

Mr. Michael Jung of the writer’s website www.Suite101.com, recently reviewed ”Danny the Dragon Meets Jimmy.” Such a lovely review! I am pleased to share with you the following link to see the review for yourself:

http://picture-books.suite101.com/article.cfm/dragon_picture_books_for_kids

(Note: Firefox users have been having trouble with the above link, so ideally you will use Internet Explorer or Safari to open it up. Copy and paste the link into your browser if necessary.)

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